Great Guys Live Good
Tame My Zilla
Own My Part
Respond rather than react. The last step in empowering my life and the first step in empowering my relationships is owning my part to end the blame game. And, then make amends.
Retrain My Zilla
My Zilla is self-righteous, indignant, reptilian, reactive and uncaring. It’s triggered by disrespect and a feeling of powerlessness remembered from long ago. I pause as long as it takes until I obsess no more.
Forgiven
Myself / My part
Forgive them too. Then, make my amends as a gift of love expecting nothing in return.
Be Good
Even When Feeling UnHappy
Accept my circumstances. Those that make my parts feel unhappy.
Circumstances don’t define me.
Then do what I can to better them.
Embrace Inherent Goodness
The goodness you had when born before anything bad happened or something good didn’t happen. Before holding any ill-will towards self or others.
Do Good
Good Happens. We Help!
The nature of Good is perfect timing.
Just what I need for joyful integrity shows up just when I need it.
That’s why there are people. So good can happen, and we can help.
Ubuntu:
I am happy when we are happy.
Resist Tribalists, Legalists, Labelers, Patriarchs. It’s how “They” become marginalized. Guard against following a dividing privileged agenda.
Make a Difference
It’s been shown helping others helps make us happier. Live a purpose driven life to make life better by empowering the good in others.