The Art of Living Good and Loving Well
Be Good ● Do Good ● Live Good ● Love Well
Good Happens. We Help!
The nature of Good is perfect timing.
Just what I need for joyful integrity shows up just when I need it.
Good wanted to happen.
That’s why there are people. So good can happen, and we can help out of gratitude not expecting a reward. It’s our calling.
Daily, I Choose Loving Kindness and Fairness to All Over Justice. Powerless no more. Empowered, I help and empower others.
Be Good: Attracts Joy
Retrain My Zilla
My Zilla is self-righteous, indignant, reptilian, reactive and uncaring. It’s triggered by disrespect and a feeling of powerlessness remembered from long ago. I pause as long as it takes until I obsess no more.
Forgiven
Myself / My part
Forgive them too. Then, make my amends as a gift of love expecting nothing in return.
Do Good: Love Generously to Empower Others
Ubuntu: I am happy when we are happy.
Resist Tribalists, Legalists, Labelers, Patriarchs. It’s how “They” become marginalized. Guard against following a dividing privileged agenda.
Own My Part
Respond rather than react. The last step in empowering my life and the first step in empowering my relationships is owning my part to end the blame game. And, then make amends.
Longing is not Loving
Is my agenda about me: what’s in it for me. Or, about you. Love cannot be earned. It’s given from self-love with no strings attached, no hidden agenda, no expectations. Give generously.
Live Good: In Self Love
Embrace Inherent Goodness
Love is abundant. Love can’t be earned. We are all connected by love. All in love.
Reclaim Your Innocence
Come Alive.
Goodness Attracts Joy
I experience your goodness.
I experience what’s good in you as an invitation to connect.
Even When Feeling UnHappy
Accept my circumstances. Those that make my parts feel unhappy.
Circumstances don’t define me.
Then do what I can to better them.