
6 Truths to Remember When You Feel Like You're Not Good Enough - Jen Kim
Feeling jealous or inadequate is normal and expected. Chances are someone is feeling the exact same way.
The "good enough mother" concept suggests being a good enough parent is better for your child than being a perfect one.
Social comparison theory is the belief that people evaluate themselves by comparing themselves to other.

Happiness Comes from Making Others Feel Good - Mark Travers Ph.D.
Attempts to make others happy increase happiness more so than trying to make oneself happy, new research suggests.
The findings may seem counterintuitive, but they confirm previous research that shows that people derive happiness from helping others.
Feelings of "relatedness," or being close to others, may help explain why helping others boosts mood.

Grit and Gratitude: Two Qualities to Benefit Well-Being - Vicki Enns, MMFT, RMFT-SM
Practicing gratitude can reduce stress and increase hopefulness, research suggests.
Practicing grit may also increase hope and allow someone to develop a growth mindset.
Grit and gratitude together can create a synergy of flexibility and resilience.

Modern Masculinity: The Atlas Complex - Mickey A. Feher
About 90 percent of people believe that society would benefit from a conversation about what modern masculinity is, according to a survey.
Two-thirds of respondents believe that masculinity and femininity are beyond gender and should be defined for each individual.
"The Atlas Complex of Men," the idea that men carry the weight of the world on their shoulders, can lead to mental health issues.

How to Set Healthy Boundaries in Close Relationships - Pamela S. Willsey LICSW, BCD, PCC
Setting and communicating boundaries can be a valuable skill in healthy relationships.
Attachment styles sometimes inform the boundaries people set and how they set them.
The goal of boundary-setting is to protect oneself and stay connected to others at the same time.

How to Speak to Ourselves With Kindness - Robert Puff Ph.D.
Many people find it easier to praise others than to speak to themselves with kindness.
One of the most difficult parts about negative self-talk is that the things people tell themselves are oftentimes true.
Combating negative self-talk first requires becoming aware of it, both in oneself and others.

Why You Might Not Be Who You Think You Are - Danielle Render Turmaud, M.S., NCC
Our self-perceptions and self-schemas might not provide a full or accurate picture of who we are.
Adverse experiences, such as trauma, can impact how we view ourselves.
Research suggests that how we see ourselves matters, so it's worth challenging harmful self-perceptions and negative self-talk.

8 Flavors of Love - Suzanne Degges-White Ph.D.
People use the word "love" to describe a variety of forms of affection — from "loving" one's favorite snack to "loving" a romantic partner.
Other words describe different types of love, such as "eros," which describes erotic love, or "ludus," which focuses on playful flirtation.
Terms that describe types of love also include "pragma," or pragmatic, mature love, and "philia," which describes friendship and mutual respect.

Depression: It’s Not About What’s Wrong With You - Denise Winn
Depression can take root when essential needs—such as security, connection, and meaning—are unmet or innate resources are misused.
Learning skills that can help people meet their essential needs can help alleviate depression.
Developing tactics to handle negative thinking and all-or-nothing thinking can also help people feel happier and more fulfilled.

The Secret to Happily Ever After - Lori S. Katz Ph.D.
Couples struggle with chronic disagreements that do not get resolved by re-hashing old upsets.
People think that if their partner changes then they will be happy. But one's level of irritation is distinct from their level of happiness.
Exercises to improve listening and appreciation can help build a foundation of giving and receiving.

The 5 Flavors of Awe—and How to Taste Them - Arash Emamzadeh
New research explores the benefits of awe and ways to promote awe.

The Path to Unconditional Self-Acceptance - Leon F. Seltzer, Ph.D.
When we're self-accepting, we're able to embrace all facets of ourselves—not just the positive, more "esteem-able" parts. As such, self-acceptance is unconditional, free of any qualification. We can recognize our weaknesses or limitations, but this awareness in no way interferes with our ability to fully accept ourselves.

Test: How happy are you?
Do you view happiness as something nebulous and hard to capture? Or are you the type of person who naturally finds joy in fleeting, everyday moments?

The Other Side of Languishing Is Flourishing - Dani Blum
Research shows that the pandemic took a toll on our overall well-being and left many of us drained. Here are seven simple steps to get you thriving again.

6 Gaslighting Phrases People Say To Manipulate You - Kelsey Borresen
Abusers use gaslighting as a way to gain and maintain power and control in the relationship. They break down your confidence over time by making you think your interpretation of events is incorrect. The more you second-guess yourself, the more you start to believe their version must be the accurate one.

We’re looking for the next $5 million idea in mental health.
actually, it’s nothing short of an epidemic: Men are disproportionately affected by suicide.

How to be happy, according to science - Alison DeNisco Rayome
In 2014, two psychologists at the University of California, Berkeley, launched an online course with a lofty goal: teaching students how to be happy, through both science and practice, in just eight weeks. No big deal, right?
The amazing thing: It seemed to work.

American men suffer a friendship recession - Daniel A. Cox
The percentage of men with at least six close friends fell by half since 1990, from 55 percent to 27 percent. The study also found the percentage of men without any close friends jumped from 3 percent to 15 percent, a fivefold increase.
Single men fare the worst. One in five American men who are unmarried and not in a romantic relationship report not having any close friends.

How Do Self-Love, Self-Esteem, Self-Acceptance Differ? - Darlene Lancer, LMFT
We look for love, yet underestimate the importance of self-love. But we can only receive as much love as we give to ourselves.
Self-love is more than an abstraction. It determines our happiness.

The benefits of self-forgiveness - Katie Shumake
Holding onto resentment and being unforgiving increases our stress levels and takes a toll on our well-being. The good news is that we can learn skills to become more constructive and effective in accepting and rectifying our errors -- and, in the process, grow as individuals.