We Stumble. We Long For More and Doubt:
Am I Really Not Good Enough?
Is This All There Is?
What’s Holding Me Back?
At some point in life, we all, or almost all, stumble. When we do, self-doubt emerges. It's a game changer or can be if you are equipped with the right tools. Most of us are not, which is why we ask these questions in the first place.
Great Guys Uniquely Answers this LONGING for More with 5 Pivotal Commitments for Greater Success, Love and Happiness:
End my Self-Sabotage: turn NEGATIVE Emotional Intelligence POSITIVE.
Retrain my 5 Saboteurs to Hold no ill-will of Self and Others.
Reclaim my Innocence to Attract more Love.
When I am Good Enough, Happiness Begins.
Good Happens! We help. Be good, do good, live good.
Within each of us is the ability under duress to act amorally or even immorally to protect ourselves and our loved ones for genetic preservation, as it always has been. This is what is known as an Amygdala Hijack. We call it Zilla.
Good Men Do Bad Things Sometimes
Inside Every Good Man
is a Great Guy!
Great Guys are empowered men who help Good Happen. Great Guys is where these empowered men gather to make greater Good Happen. Being Good and doing Good, we feel Good. When we don't feel Good, Great Guys help each other's journeys to reconnect with our inherent goodness shedding fear, doubt, shame, sorrow, and guilt.
Unsuccessful No More
At times triggers from the past bring out the Hero, Martyr, Performer, Bully or wounded Child, we adopted when powerless to combat uncertainty, not belonging, not mattering, feeling unsafe or not enough. Powerless no more, yet as long as we remain blended with our five Dark Triad Saboteurs, they no longer protect and instead take charge often sabotaging success. So, Great Guys unblend.
The journey from powerless to powerful to finally empowered takes us from grieving our unfair past to being a rational loving adult. Innocent again. Relieved, released from the grip of Guilt, Fear, Anger, Shame and Sorrow. Along this path we forgive ourselves and all others, restoring our innocence. With innocence restored and in abundant self-love, love is attracted, no longer pursued.
Not Enough No More
Good Enough?
A 2023 study shows that perceived well being (happiness) is dependent on feeling good about ourselves. Without that there is no MORE that can make an unhappy person happy.
UnHappy No More
Men weren’t trained to be happy. We were trained to compete, to win what we want. Unhappily, as providers, there is an infinite want to desire and limited ability to win it. Thinking less unhappy = being happier, we learned to settle. Settle for NOT ENOUGH.
Just what we want shows up just when we need it to. Improbably, as if by magic.
At first, we discount it as a strange coincidence. But then, when it happens again,:
“That was Good! Maybe something special is happening. Maybe I’m special!” It’s what draws us onto the path to abandoning ill-will in favor of innocence.