Every block of stone has a statue inside it and it is the task of the sculptor to discover it.
I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free.
- Michelangelo
Inside Every Good Man
is a Great Guy!
Great guys are empowered men who help Good Happen. Great Guys is where these empowered men gather to make greater Good Happen. Being Good and doing Good, we feel Good. When we don't feel Good, great guys help each other's journeys to reconnect with our inherent goodness shedding fear, doubt, shame, sorrow, and guilt.
Empowered means living a moral life and having abundant personal power to share with others to uplift them.
Do Good
Being Good, we treat others, all others, humanely, honoring their humanity, their right to their feelings and desires. We are all in this together.
Be Good
Innocent again. Relieved, released from the grip of Guilt, Fear, Anger, Shame and Sorrow.
Feel Good
Within each of us is the ability under duress to act amorally or even immorally to protect ourselves and our loved ones for genetic preservation, as it always has been.
Good Men Do Bad Things
Domestic Violence for many is a cycle passed from one generation to the next. Break the cycle.
Intergenerational Abuse
Relationships
Great guys empower their relationships at home, at work, with friends and especially with self by looking at the roles we play (Hero, Martyr, Adult, Wounded Ego), winning strategies, and what to look out for. We call moving from Martyr/Hero to adult: Growing Up
Just what we want shows up just when we need it to. Improbably, as if by magic.
At first, we discount it as a strange coincidence. But then, when it happens again,:
“That was Good! Maybe something special is happening. Maybe I’m special!”
Good Happens
What if Love Is Abundant?
Unearned: Just because we are?
My inherent goodness attracts yours.
Helping Good Happen with live good loving lives. Free from the illusion living well will fill the scarcity of longing.
For Men the Path to Happiness Can Be Confusing
Men weren’t trained to be happy. We were trained to compete, to win what we want. Unhappily, as providers, there is an infinite want to desire and limited ability to win it. Thinking less unhappy = being happier, we learned to settle.